Help! My Dog is a Drama King! (Vet Answered)
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Veterinarian & Animal Behaviorist
With nearly two decades in veterinary medicine, Dr. Paola brings hands-on experience across multiple species. A graduate of the University of Guadalajara, she specializes in preventive care, animal welfare, and positive reinforcement training.
The Question
“Every time I leave the house, my dog Frankie gives me the most dramatic ‘I’m going to die without you’ look. How can I help him be less of a drama king when I leave?” – Sam from Wisconsin
Quick Info about Frankie
Hi Sam! First, know that you are not alone. This is a widespread problem with dogs and pet owners and it is usually an indication of your dog suffering separation anxiety. Addressing the issue is very important otherwise you may soon start seeing some of your property lost due to Frankie’s distress. You might also hear some complaints from your neighbors due to the noise.
It is very important to start working on changing the scenario to effectively change Frankie’s mindset. Start with yourself—learn to be relaxed and not to make a big fuss about leaving or returning home. You must analyze your behavior to find what body language and cues trigger Frankie’s responses. For some people is when they grab the keys from the keyholder or when they put on their coats, etc. Identify that moment because that is what you have to start working with. A simple solution is to find something that grabs Frankie’s attention and is incompatible with making a drama. Puzzle feeders work great, but do not fall into the mistake of using the same approach every single time you leave as Frankie will soon lose interest, so I recommend that you find at least three different items to use on rotation. I love treat dispensing cameras, as they allow a distance interaction with your pup. Just be very mindful to ensure Frankie only gets a treat when he is calm. The general idea is to offer Frankie something else to focus on while you calmly and quietly leave. Avoid big dramatic goodbyes, work on short returns, and avoid long-lasting leaving routines.
You can learn more about separation anxiety by reading these posts:
Separation Anxiety in Dogs: Vet-Approved Guide
How to Help a Dog With Separation Anxiety: Vet-Reviewed Tips & Tricks
Best wishes!
Dr. Paola